Or have sex with those they do find attractive only to find out they're not who they thought they were!Spidrift wrote:So people should have sex with other people to whom they're not physically attracted, because otherwise they'd be insensitive?Cortez wrote:Then the other people are being insensitive dicks.
Jerzy is clearly trying (admirably) hard to be polite to and respectful of an old friend. But even so, he keeps talking about her as female (comparing her to the female protagonist of that movie, for example), to an extent that might slightly annoy Angel if Angel wasn't rather obsessed with him. The fact that he is still perfectly capable of finding Angel sexually attractive, despite reading Angel as female, is exactly what says to me that he's bisexual for any useful definition of the word, despite his denial.Cortez wrote:And Jerzy seems to respect Angel's just fine even if he isn't always comfortable with it. He's not an ass about it.
People on this board can say it's insensitive all they want, but most people in the world would identify Angel as the gender she was born with. This especially includes gay men who meet her and would expect her to be a male if it got far enough into the relationship.
So that Jerzy has gone this far either means he's doing his best to put aside that part of himself or there's something deeper going on with him (cares for Angel that much or a closet bi).