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What is this "sex" thing that this thread is on about?

Asaryu wrote:The main reason I'm here and not having sex is that I'm on holidays from work at the boy is at work. Sex is awesome and I will happily talk about it all day.

I feel like more sex should be had by everyone.

Also, the first thing I'm going to do when I put it on is nose-boop the boy with it.

a cat is certainly not fine too!

I still remember the time adamas tried to use a ball gag on me.

*hides*

But seriously Asaryu, its great to know that you're having fun and found an interesting new activity to try with a willing male participant you can love and trust (and who trusts you enough and is kinky enough to have a go)

I think a lot of it comes down to feeling comfortable enough with myself and the things that turn me on to be able to approach it without fear of rejection, and trusting that the person I'm with trusts me and is turned on by the same things I am. I'm miles better than I used to be, in no small part because of his patience and psychology training and the support of previous partners who were wonderful despite not working out.

We did have a solid discussion about it last night. After I declared that with his blessing I had researched, selected and purchased the ideal setup, communication from his end ceased. As it's something I am relatively self-conscious about, I started to worry that I'd over-stepped or misread his enthusiasm and consent. I got hostile, as I tend to do when feeling rejected, but we talked about it and it was all an innocent misunderstanding. Then we talked more about what we were excited about with this new thing and hot sex ensued.

Life is good.

Moving in keeps getting delayed. Long distance is hard. My dry spell is going on three years now. Whyyyyyyyyy

Since the last time I abandoned this forum without notice, I have somewhat come to hate sex. Not the act, because the act is fun, when done properly, but the issues surrounding it.

Basically, I'm fetish bait for various reasons I won't get into, and good-looking fetish bait at that. Which sounds arrogant, I realize, and some people wouldn't think so, but to the people who fetishize me, I am. It's gotten to the point where three of my friends ex's have pursued me immediately after dumping my friends, I get daily messages on dating sites from inelegant men asking to plow me, and some of my friends have joined together to try and seduce me. And almost succeeded

This all doesn't sound like a problem, but when you're likely monogamous, have never had a relationship and want one, people desiring to use you as a blow-up doll isn't the best thing for your self-esteem.

Yeah, no... that's NOT the thing you're after if you want a proper, lasting relationship... but don't let it get to your self-esteem.

I've been back now for about a day, lurking a bit, and a lot has changed on my end as well.
After a 3 year relationship with, let's not deny it: a fairly absent sexlife, I've found myself at the other end of your debacle, Marque'd.

I'm now the one that is actively searching for people just to have some sex with before I settle down in a relationship again.
And that is, as a straight male, quite the task due to above reasons: people wanting a relationship, and the societal stigma of 'the slut'.

Nev, honey... don't worry. It'll work out soon enough. I promise. If not, he/she's not worth it.


EDIT:
Not to double post, I'll make this an edit.
Spoke with DA, and he suggested to put it here.

Continuing on my search for 'just sex', there are two recently divorced moms living in my street.
One of them is clearly showing signs of wanting to 'get it on with me', (Mom A) and the other one, (Mom B) not really, but she claims it's that because her daughter (9) has a crush on my son (10).
The other mom that DOES show signs... okay, blatantly tells me to date her, is the mom of my son's classmate of elementary school.
And unfortunately, I'm physically attracted to both.
Mind you: neither three of us is looking for anything serious, and I've never even had any female to be interested in me for just sex.
You've seen my pictures, so you'll see I'm not super attractive to get whoever I want.

So? What should I do?
Force myself to not be attracted to the Mom B, because it should be morally wrong to date the mom of a potential girlfriend of my son?
Should I keep Mom A at bay because our sons are classmates, and it might get weird for the two of them, if either one finds out?
I'm at a loss here. One one side I get where Mom B is coming from, on the other hand: why would an elementary school crush stand in the way of some short-term hapiness for us parents?
I don't even know if he likes her daughter back (he doesn't really wanna talk about anything that even hints to a girlfriend)...

And then Mom A. Should we just go for it, no matter how brief it will be? (We both were clear that nothing serious would come out of it if we would end up sleeping together).

I'm open for suggestions and rants on how vile of a creature I am, but not to clog this thread up too much send me a PM, please

Sorry to see that, Marque'd. Sounds like a shitty thing to have to deal with.

My issues are small... I've been training more (Tuesdays yoga, Thursdays boot camp, Fridays basic skills derby, Sunday morning pretty derby skating, Sunday afternoon contact derby skating) and while it's the funnest thing ever, I am left with little time in my schedule for hanky panky, even though my inclination has increased. The boy is a late-night sexy-times person, and by the time he registers that sex is a thing he would like, I'm already well on my way to sleepytown for an 8am start at work. I just want sex more than twice a week. :'(

Maybe you should try other pick up lines, like "Get naked now!" and get some handcuffs so he cant run away. ;)
Just show him more open you want and i think he may want too, maybe he is just bad ad reading your mod in that way.

@ Retiarius

What is this "sex" thing that this thread is on about?

I think its what other nerds call LARPP

Live Action Role Playing Porn

Marque'd wrote:Since the last time I abandoned this forum without notice, I have somewhat come to hate sex. Not the act, because the act is fun, when done properly, but the issues surrounding it.

Basically, I'm fetish bait for various reasons I won't get into, and good-looking fetish bait at that. Which sounds arrogant, I realize, and some people wouldn't think so, but to the people who fetishize me, I am. It's gotten to the point where three of my friends ex's have pursued me immediately after dumping my friends, I get daily messages on dating sites from inelegant men asking to plow me, and some of my friends have joined together to try and seduce me. And almost succeeded

This all doesn't sound like a problem, but when you're likely monogamous, have never had a relationship and want one, people desiring to use you as a blow-up doll isn't the best thing for your self-esteem.

you are indeed extremely fetching <3. I can see what you mean by the type of beauty you have but this is a very very unfortunate set of circumstances you are experiencing

@Germanmerc:

Never did LARP. Especially not with the extra "P".

so say. asaryu. Did you get to nose boop?

Holy shit, I got laid. Someone, give me one of these.

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoo

*lynx kitteh causes confetti and streamers to explode from all the cave crevices, including his own*

~rolls around in the confetti

It started out as a spontaneous hookup, but I really like this guy and I've been seeing him more. It's fun, and sexy, and totally comfortable. It's exactly what I needed, especially with the things that have been going on. And it really doesn't hurt that he's a musician. Mmmm. Guitarists.

Age: 27

First Kiss: No clue, I kissed any girl I thought was cute in my early years. It feels so long ago...

First GF: Also started early, but if we're saying serious g/f, I'd say I was 15, she was 14. Dated for 3 years.

First NISE: Girl as above, we tried everything but sex. Lots of experimentation for a young couple.

First Time: What counts as first time? Penetration, or orgasm?

I was 18. She was a petite girl. In the shower and a little thrusting, for penetration attempt #1.

Attempt #2 - I went in at the wrong angle, and my girth caused her inner vulva to tear. Needless to say, we didn't continue.

Orgasm: Desperation. 'Nuff said.