That's not actually a sense of respect for a woman, and not just Tracy, but women in general. James finds fellatio demeaning, which means it lessens a woman as a person in his eyes if he allows her to perform that sex act. If putting your dick in a woman's mouth causes you to lose respect for her, you never had any to begin with. It's up to Tracy, and Tracy alone to decide what degrades her - not James, not his Gender Studies professor, not his favorite anti-slut-shaming activist YouTuber, not his favorite feminist Tumblr, and not his favorite Jezebel writer.Spidrift wrote: ↑Thu Sep 28, 2017 3:26 pmLet's get this straight; Tracy and James are a good-looking pair with shared interests who clearly like each other, and have excellent sex. And yet, the fact that he has a slightly over-developed and misdirected sense of respect for her somehow stops them being "a couple"?
James doesn't respect Tracy. They're not having excellent sex. She's frustrated as hell that she can't suck him off. She's not satisfied. Tracy has to hide who she really is because James is too judgmental to accept her. James needs to find himself some woke chick so they can whinge about how porn degrades women together, and Tracy needs a man she can go full turboslut with who will still respect her in the morning.