Generally (in my experience, at least), teenage girls think about romance all the time, the way that teenage boys generally think about sex all the time. In the classic song from Grease, the girls dreamily ask the heroine, "Was it love at first sight?" while the boys ask the male protagonist,"Did she put up a fight?" regarding whether or not she resisted his sexual advances. (Okay, come to think of it, that's a rather gross song in some respects, but I think it shows my point.)
There's an old saying that goes, "Guys have a relationship for the sex, girls have sex for the relationship," and that's relevant here in that girls tend to look for the relationship first and foremost, with the bump-and-grind being a secondary concern. (Again, I'm talking generally, and there are, of course, definite exceptions ... such as a girl who's first name starts with a "Z" and ends with an "ii" ... ;) ).
Sooo ... a girl asking whether a girl-girl kiss was soft and tender and desirable could likely be thinking beyond the idea of lesbian sex and more into simply, "Was it romantic and nicely memorable?"
At least, that's my take on it.
And so it goes ...
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